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Hold Me Tight
Dr. Sue Johnson · 2008 · 320 pages
Heralded by the New York Times and Time magazine as the couple therapy with the highest rate of success, Emotionally Focused Therapy works because it views the love relationship as an attachment bond. This idea, once controversial, is now supported by science, and has become widely popular among therapists around the world. In HOLD ME TIGHT, Dr. Sue Johnson presents Emotionally Focused Therapy to the general public for the first time. Johnson teaches that the way to save and enrich a relationship is to reestablish safe emotional connection and preserve the attachment bond. With this in mind, she focuses on key moments in a relationship-from Recognizing the Demon Dialogue to Revisiting a Rocky Moment-and uses them as touchpoints for seven healing conversations. Through case studies from her practice, illuminating advice, and practical exercises, couples will learn how to nurture their relationships and ensure a lifetime of love.
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Ryan Holiday
“Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson, I was recommended this by a therapist but basically she says that all couples are in a dance and one person reaches out and the other person pulls away and then this creates a toxic cycle in a relationship and so it's about recognizing this dance and stopping it before you end up in these long arguments and fights where no one gets what they want.”

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