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books to read after a breakup

Books people return to during and after a breakup — covering the grief, the recalibration, the rebuilding of identity, and the eventual return to clarity. Curated from the recommendations of writers, therapists, and people who've written publicly about their own.

15 books, ranked by how many of the 4,800 notable readers in our index have publicly recommended each one.

  1. Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
    52 people

    Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones

    James Clear · 2018

    52 recommenders

  2. Maybe You Should Talk To Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed
    14 people

    Maybe You Should Talk To Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed

    Lori Gottlieb · 2019

    14 recommenders

  3. A Little Life
    12 people

    A Little Life

    Hanya Yanagihara · 2015

    12 recommenders

  4. Tiny Beautiful Things
    9 people

    Tiny Beautiful Things

    Cheryl Strayed · 2022

    9 recommenders

  5. All About Love: New Visions
    7 people

    All About Love: New Visions

    bell hooks · 1999

    7 recommenders

  6. The 5 Love Languages Hardcover Special Edition: The Secret to Love That Lasts
    6 people

    The 5 Love Languages Hardcover Special Edition: The Secret to Love That Lasts

    Gary Chapman · 2014

    6 recommenders

  7. Atomic Habits
    4 people

    Atomic Habits

    James Clear · 2022

    4 recommenders

  8. Big Magic
    4 people

    Big Magic

    Elizabeth Gilbert · 2015

    4 recommenders

  9. Rising Strong: How the Ability to Reset Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead
    4 people

    Rising Strong: How the Ability to Reset Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead

    Brené Brown · 2015

    4 recommenders

  10. The Wisdom of Insecurity
    4 people

    The Wisdom of Insecurity

    Alan Watts · 1968

    4 recommenders

  11. Untamed
    4 people

    Untamed

    Glennon Doyle · 2020

    4 recommenders

  12. The Art of Loving
    3 people

    The Art of Loving

    Erich Fromm · 2019

    3 recommenders

  13. Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia
    1 person

    Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia

    Elizabeth Gilbert · 2007

    1 recommender

  14. Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey
    1 person

    Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey

    Florence Williams · 2022

    1 recommender

  15. The Course of Love
    1 person

    The Course of Love

    Alain De Botton · 2016

    1 recommender

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